Some of you my want to make a list of all the poses that you want BUT the new trend is to photograph what happens after the guests go home - sorry a little lost with this one.
I would always suggest that you take as many photographs of your special day.
My suggestions: 1) That you have a person not from the party doing this. 2) That you make a list of the ones that a family member might want. 3) That you have a person outside of the party to manage this. 4) Have an unlimited amount because the best ones are usually not on the list. In Phuket I have used - Clinicklong and Phuket Photographer